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Stardew Valley: How The Friendship Point System Works

Author : Allison Feb 04,2025

This guide delves into the mechanics of friendship in Stardew Valley, explaining how to maximize relationships with villagers, whether for friendship or romance. While conversation and gifting are key, not all interactions are equal.

The Heart System:

The in-game heart meter (accessed via the menu) displays friendship levels with each NPC. Reaching certain heart thresholds unlocks unique events, mail, and dialogue options. Each heart represents 250 friendship points.

Boosting Friendship Gain:

The "Friendship 101" book (obtained from the Prize Machine or the Bookseller in Year 3) provides a permanent 10% boost to friendship point gains from positive interactions.

Point Values for Interactions:

  • Daily Conversations: +20 points (or +10 if the NPC is busy). Failing to talk to an NPC results in a friendship decrease (-2 points, or -10 if a bouquet has been given, or -20 for a spouse).
  • Bulletin Board Deliveries: +150 points with the recipient.
  • Gifting:
    • Loved Gifts: +80 points
    • Liked Gifts: +45 points
    • Neutral Gifts: +20 points
    • Disliked Gifts: -20 points
    • Hated Gifts: -40 points
    • Birthday/Feast of the Winter Star Gifts: 8x/5x the usual point values.
  • Stardrop Tea: +250 points (one heart), tripled on birthdays and the Feast of the Winter Star. Can be obtained from the Prize Machine, Golden Fishing Chests, the Helper's Bundle, or from the raccoon.
  • Movie Theater: Inviting an NPC to the movies yields varying points based on movie and concession choices. Loved Movie: +200, Liked Movie: +100, Loved Concession: +50, Liked Concession: +25.
  • Conversations & Dialogue: Dialogue choices can yield +10 to +50 points (or cause decreases). Heart Events can significantly impact friendship (+/- 200 points).

Festivals and Events:

  • Flower Dance: Dancing with an NPC (4 hearts or higher) grants +250 points (one heart).
  • Luau: Contributing to the community soup yields varying points based on the soup's quality.
  • Community Center (Bulletin Board Bundles): Completing all Bulletin Board bundles awards +500 points (two hearts) with each non-dateable villager.

This comprehensive guide provides a thorough understanding of Stardew Valley's friendship system, enabling players to cultivate strong relationships within Pelican Town. Remember to consider individual villager preferences when gifting and choosing dialogue options for optimal results.

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